This site wasn’t created to educate you about malignant narcissism in any detail. We’re living in the electronic age and education is at your fingertips. All you have to be able to do is ask intelligent questions then seek and accept “the answer”. Not “the answer you want to hear”!
This site is to assist those that wish to learn to identify malignant narcissists by recognizing the cowardly and underhanded behavior malignant narcissists exercise in their “anything goes” subconscious desparity fill their constantly hemorrhaging and empty tank of self-esteem. They’re exponentially insecure, have horribly fragile egos and require, at a fundamental subconscious level, a need to puppetize low functioning individuals (create narcissistic suppliers) and chop the heads off of anyone that threatens their fragile ego through exposing what they really are.
Malignant narcissism is a mental disorder that destroys huge numbers of lives every day. It’s able to do so because of one fundamental fact; “normal” functioning individuals are emotionally incapable of believing that others will behave in the manner that malignant narcissists do. This allows malignant narcissists to quietly function, undetected, in the cowardly, covert and malicious self-centered and self-serving paradigm that they do. Because of a lack of education and lack of awareness about malignant narcissism “good” (normal functioning) individuals are unknowingly drawn in and their lives degraded or destroyed. To avoid being sucked in requires education about malignant narcissism. But far more so it requires awareness of the dynamics of malignant narcissism so one can identify it.
Malignant narcissists are complete frauds. They’re human chameleons. They have no friends. They have no family. They have no genuine relationships. They simply have assets and liabilities. They have no self! They’re what they need to be when they need to be it in order to manipulate others to pacify their wounded and fragile ego and maintain a charade. That’s their absolute priority! YES…there are people that do this!
And, it’s VERY common for these mentally ill individuals to land in places of feigned public service. A tremendously common example would be in a voluntary position in a Homeowners Association!
If this site can help just one individual gain enough awareness about malignant narcissism and avoid being duped by a malignant narcissist then it was a success and worth all the effort!
A few thoughts to consider:
• In this thing called life there’s only one thing any of us actually own that we can take to our graves with us and that’s our integrity! It can’t be taken, only forfeited.
• You’re only in control of you.
• When America was actually great it was great because the majority of society chose to exercise the courage to stand up for “right”, not just “what’s right for them” or what they needed to do to be popular or accepted.
• It’s far more valuable to be respected than liked. All the positively influential people in history share a common paradigm; the courage to exercise the integrity to stand up for right regardless of popularity, acceptance, ridicule or consequences.
• Being offended is a choice the offended makes and it’s completely rooted in their own poor personal boundaries. Nobody can offend you! Only you can “allow” yourself to be offended. Feel offended? The only place you ever need to point the finger of blame is in the mirror.
• You’re responsible for your voluntary actions. Take responsibility for them! If you look at something that bothers you and yet you keep looking at it and being bothered then you’re a fool. If you look at something that bothers you and you keep looking at it and you complain about it to others you’re a coward.